BOOKS

This page contains the books published by Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (Pasindu A)

Find the Man of Your Dreams: 10 Traits of High-Value Men

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (Pasindu A)

 

FIND THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS: 10 TRAITS OF HIGH VALUE MEN

Are you tired of dating the wrong guys? Are you looking for a man who is intelligent, kind, supportive, and ambitious? If so, then this book is for you! 

In this book, you will learn about the 10 traits of high-value men in relationships. These traits are:

• Integrity and moral courage
• Emotional intelligence
• Confidence and self-assuredness
• Continuous personal growth
• Empathy and compassion
• Independence and self-reliance
• Resilience and adaptability
• Respectful and supportive nature
• Humility and gratitude
• Leadership and empowerment

You will learn how to spot these traits in a man, and how to attract and keep a high-value man in your life.

This book is essential reading for any woman who is serious about finding and keeping the man of her dreams. It is also a valuable resource for men who want to become the best partners they can be.

Here are just a few of the benefits of reading this book:

• You will learn how to avoid dating the wrong guys and focus on dating high-value men.
• You will learn how to spot the signs of a high-value man.
• You will learn how to attract and keep a high-value man in your life.
• You will learn how to build a strong and healthy relationship with a high-value man.
• You will learn how to create a life that is full of love, happiness, and fulfillment.

If you are ready to find the man of your dreams, then order your copy of this book today!

If you are a man who wants to become more attractive to women and become the best version of yourself,

This book will teach you the 10 traits of high-value men and how to develop them. It will also teach you how to become more attractive to women and how to build strong and healthy relationships.

If you are ready to become the best version of yourself, then order your copy of this book today!

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The Science of Attraction

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (PASINDU A)

The Science of Attraction

Beyond butterflies and stolen glances: Dive into the captivating science of attraction!

Ever wondered why you're drawn to one person but not another? Why does a fleeting gaze ignite a spark, while hours of conversation leave you cold?

"The Science of Attraction" peels back the curtain on the captivating mystery of human desire, revealing the biological, psychological, and even cultural forces that orchestrate the symphony of attraction.

This isn't your typical self-help guide or shallow rom-com. This is a deep dive into the very essence of what makes us fall, stay, and drift apart.

It's a scientific detective story where wit meets wisdom, and every chapter unveils a new clue:

•         Unmask the allure of physical features: Discover the evolutionary whispers hidden in symmetry, the seductive power of scent, and how cultural norms paint beauty in a thousand vibrant hues.

•         Delve into the depths of the mind: Explore the charm of wit, the allure of shared values, and the intoxicating pull of a kindred spirit. Understand how personality, intelligence, and humor play their part in the grand play of attraction.

•         Experience the emotional rollercoaster: Witness how vulnerability ignites intimacy, shared laughter sparks joy, and passion paints emotions in fiery hues. Learn how emotional connection deepens attraction and shapes lasting bonds.

•         Go beyond the individual: Discover how social factors like status and popularity cast their fleeting shadows on desire. Travel across continents to see how cultural expectations influence mating preferences and ignite unique passions.

•         Peek into the future: Contemplate the possibilities of AI-powered matchmaking and the ethical quandaries of genetic manipulation. Imagine a world where virtual connections blur the lines between reality and fantasy, forever altering the way we navigate the realm of attraction.

"The Science of Attraction" is more than just a book; it's an invitation. It's an invitation to shed preconceived notions and embrace the beautiful complexity of desire.

It's an invitation to understand yourself, your unique patterns of attraction, and the intricate connections that bind you to others. It's a chance to rewrite your own love story, armed with the knowledge of science and the wisdom of self-discovery.

So, are you ready to unlock the secrets of desire? Turn the page, dear reader, and let the captivating dance of attraction begin.

Remember, this book is not just for the romantics; it's for anyone curious about the human experience, anyone who has ever wondered why the heart beats faster for some and remains silent for others. 

It's a journey of self-discovery, a quest for understanding, and a celebration of the beautiful tapestry of human connection.

Join the scientific exploration of attraction today!

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MilesApart Hearts Together: 10 Ways to Thrive in a Long Distance Relationship

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (PASINDU A)

 

Miles Apart Hearts Together: 10 Ways to Thrive in a Long Distance Relationship

Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but they can also be incredibly rewarding. If you're in a long-distance relationship, or if you're considering starting one, this book is for you.

In Miles Apart, Hearts Together, you'll learn 10 essential tips for thriving in a long-distance relationship. These tips are based on the experiences of real couples who have successfully navigated the challenges of distance.

If you're ready to take your long-distance relationship to the next level, Miles Apart, Hearts Together is the book for you.

Why men and women must buy and read this book:

If you're in a long-distance relationship, or if you're considering starting one, this book is essential reading. It will give you the tools and knowledge you need to thrive in your relationship, even when you are miles apart.

You'll learn the practical tips on how to:

•           Communicate openly and honestly

•           Set clear expectations and boundaries

•           Make an effort to stay connected

•           Plan visits

•           Be supportive of each other's goals and dreams

•           Trust each other

•           Be patient and understanding

•           Get creative with your dates

•           Send each other care packages

•           Be optimistic

•           Schedule regular check-ins with each other

If you're serious about making your long-distance relationship work, then you need to buy and read this book.

It's the best investment you can make in your relationship.

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The Secret to a Great Sex Life: 10 Ways of Talking to Your Partner About Sex

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (PASINDU A)

The Secret to a Great Sex Life: 10 Ways of Talking to Your Partner About Sex

Do you want to have a great sex life? The key is communication.

The Secret to a Great Sex Life: 10 Ways of Talking to Your Partner About Sex will teach you how to talk to your partner about your sexual needs and desires in a way that is open, honest, and respectful. You will learn how to communicate your boundaries, identify and resolve any problems in your sex life, and strengthen your intimacy and connection.

This book is for anyone who wants to improve their sex life, regardless of their age, gender, or sexual orientation. 

It is especially helpful for couples who are struggling to communicate about sex or who are feeling frustrated with their sex life.

Here are just a few of the things you will learn in this book:

•           How to choose the right time and place to talk to your partner about sex

•           How to start with a positive and gently transition into what you'd like to change

•           How to be specific and direct in your communication

•           How to use "I" statements to communicate your needs in a non-judgmental way

•           How to be open to feedback and listen to your partner's needs and desires

•           How to set boundaries and communicate what you're not comfortable with

•           How to be patient and understanding

•           How to use humor and playfulness to make talking about sex more enjoyable

Why men and women must read this book:

Sex is an important part of many people's lives. It can be a source of pleasure, intimacy, and connection with our partners. However, sex can also be a source of anxiety, frustration, and disappointment. One of the biggest challenges that couples face is talking about sex openly and honestly.

This book will teach you how to talk to your partner about sex in a way that is open, honest, and respectful. By learning how to communicate effectively about sex, you can create a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life for both of you.

Here are some specific benefits of reading this book:

•           Learn how to communicate your sexual needs and desires more effectively

•           Improve your communication with your partner in all areas of your relationship

•           Strengthen your intimacy and connection

•           Resolve any problems in your sex life

•           Feel more confident and comfortable with your sexuality

•           Have a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life

If you want to have a great sex life, you need to be able to talk to your partner about it.

This book will teach you how to do just that.

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Beyond the Honeymoon: Fun and Easy Ways to Keep the Spark Alive in Your Busy Marriage

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (PASINDU A)

Beyond the Honeymoon: Fun and Easy Ways to Keep the Spark Alive in Your Busy Marriage

 

Does the Honeymoon Have to End? Reignite the Spark in Your Busy Marriage with "Beyond the Honeymoon"!

Feeling the flame of passion flicker in your once-sizzling marriage? Juggling work, kids, and the daily grind can leave your relationship feeling neglected.

But fear not! "Beyond the Honeymoon" is your fun, practical guide to keeping the spark alive, even in the midst of your busy lives.

This book is packed with easy-to-implement tips and strategies that take just minutes (or even seconds!) to incorporate into your daily routine. 

Discover the secrets to:

•         Planning Date Nights that Don't Feel Like a Chore (because romance shouldn't require a herculean effort!)

•         Rekindling Intimacy with Simple Touches (physical connection goes a long way in keeping the fire burning!)

•         Leaving Love Notes that Make Your Partner Swoon (a little handwritten message can make a big difference!)

•         Celebrating Small Victories Together (because appreciating each other's wins strengthens your bond!)

•         Embracing New Adventures (Big or Small!) (Shared experiences create lasting memories and keep the relationship exciting!)

"Beyond the Honeymoon" goes beyond generic advice. It's a supportive and encouraging companion that understands the challenges of modern marriage.

With humor, warmth, and practical tips, this book will help you:

•         Prioritize Your Relationship Without Feeling Guilty (because a happy marriage benefits everyone!)

•         Communicate Effectively with Your Partner (open and honest communication is key!)

•         Build a Stronger Connection with Your Spouse (because a fulfilling marriage is a source of joy and strength!)

Don't let your busy life steal the magic from your marriage. 

"Beyond the Honeymoon" is the key to reigniting the spark, keeping the romance alive, and building a love story that gets better with time.

Start your journey today!

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Love's Broken Compass: Reclaiming Your Direction After a Heartbreak

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (PASINDU A)

Love's Broken Compass: Reclaiming Your Direction After a Heartbreak

Love, in its purest form, is a beautiful and powerful force. 

However, the path of love is not always smooth sailing. When a relationship falters and a heartbreak sets in, it can feel like your emotional compass has been shattered, leaving you lost and disoriented in a sea of uncertainty. You might find yourself questioning everything you thought you knew about love, relationships, and even yourself.

Love's Broken Compass is not just another "get over it" guide. This book is your lifeline in the storm, offering more than just words of comfort. 

It's a comprehensive guide packed with 10 powerful tools to help you navigate the challenging terrain of heartbreak and emerge stronger on the other side.

Here's what you can expect:

•         Validation, not platitudes: This book acknowledges the depth of your pain and the unique challenges you face.

•         Practical strategies, not empty promises: Each chapter equips you with actionable steps and proven techniques to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of heartbreak.

•         Hope, not despair: This book guides you towards a future filled with hope and the possibility of finding love again.

Whether you're in the throes of fresh heartbreak or still healing from past wounds, Love's Broken Compass will be your trusted companion. As you turn the pages, you'll discover:

•         How to navigate the emotional storms of heartbreak with grace and resilience

•         How to reconnect with your inner strength and rediscover your authentic self

•         How to transform your pain into a catalyst for personal growth and positive change

•         How to cultivate gratitude and optimism to pave the way for a brighter future

This book is not a magic bullet, but it's a powerful compass to guide you back to your true north. 

With compassionate guidance, insightful exercises, and real-life stories, Love's Broken Compass empowers you to reclaim your direction, rebuild your heart, and open yourself to the possibility of love once again.

Are you ready to begin your journey of healing and rediscover the strength and resilience that lies within you?

Then embark on this voyage with Love's Broken Compass and start charting a new course towards a future filled with love, happiness, and self-discovery.

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That’s Enough: SettingHealthy Boundaries in a Relationship for Self-Care

By Dr. Pasindu Abeysundara (PASINDU A)

That’s Enough: Setting Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship for Self-Care

 

In a world that often equates love with self-sacrifice, many of us find ourselves tangled in the delicate dance of relationships, trying to balance our needs with the desires of those we care about. We navigate a complex web of expectations, often at the expense of our own well-being.

The truth is, the boundaries are not merely walls we erect to keep others out; they are the vital lines that help us define our identities, protect our mental and emotional health, and cultivate more meaningful connections.

In “That’s Enough: Setting Healthy Boundaries in a Relationship for Self-Care”, you are invited on a transformative journey—a journey toward understanding the crucial role that boundaries play in fostering a life of authenticity, respect, and self-love.

This book is not just about learning to say “no” or to carve out space for yourself; it is about recognizing that you deserve to have your needs met and that setting boundaries is an act of kindness toward both yourself and your partner.

As you turn the pages, you will uncover the importance of boundaries for self-care, delving into the psychological underpinnings of why these limits are essential for your mental and emotional well-being.

You will learn to recognize unhealthy boundaries that may have taken root in your relationships, identifying signs that can undermine your self-esteem and mental health.

With practical tools and compassionate strategies, you’ll discover how to communicate your boundaries effectively, overcoming the fear that often accompanies asserting your needs.

This book acknowledges that the path to healthier relationships is not without its challenges.

You will explore the reactions that may arise when you establish boundaries, learning how to navigate resistance with grace and understanding.

As you commit to maintaining your boundaries over time, you will experience the profound impact they have on conflict resolution, mutual respect, and trust.

“That’s Enough” is not just a guide; it is a call to action. It urges you to prioritize your well-being, recognizing that in doing so, you not only honor yourself but also enrich the relationships that matter most to you.

By embracing the principles outlined in this book, you will be equipped to cultivate a life that reflects your values, nurtures your self-worth, and fosters the deep, respectful connections you deserve.

So, dear reader, as you embark on this journey, remember that you are not alone.

Many have walked this path before you, and with each step, you will find the strength to advocate for your needs and embrace the life you truly desire.

Let this book be your companion and guide as you explore the transformative power of boundaries and reclaim your right to self-care in every relationship.

Your journey begins now—let's take that first step together.

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